The Core of Problems

Our body often reflects our attitudes, emotions and so...all these things are coming from inside us. We can say it is from our soul or from our consciousness. All the problems are some kind of reaction of our own mental character.

For example, the gravitational pull of the earth lies with  the core of the earth, but all that, what it attracts hits the crust of the earth. So crust is something that reflects the real earth and we are just bothered about it.

So what ever we reflects in our physical body is what we create in our Psychic body.... We just have to realize the Core of the real physical problems.....It is just an instrument form the real experiences

Living Single

We human are generally softhearted and we are sensible to the world around us.We cry with our friends,sometimes laugh with strangers, get angry with each other and so... See how sensible we are? We love to have a world around us with all these different emotions. So choice of living single, happily through our life will be a test of our character. 

But can't we live alone in the world?Why we expect the support and company from others?It is because we are not confident about our life. We must have to face everything that might come across in our life and it should be faced alone.

We should feel strong inside.We are the one who decide our  life, so how we can regret for the things we face.Never look back! What ever is happened is happened and never waste the time for the cross checking.Be bold and brave in our decisions. When we do that, we will be able to meet our life with ease.

Never expect any care and love, but keep focus in your life.Enjoy the freedom of living.....

Single living means, bold living........

No Stress in work.....

No work in the world is stressful.If we feel we are getting stressed out of our work, it means we are doing a work in which we have any interest or feelings. We must use our feelings to keep the interest in what we are doing.Then we will not be stressed of our work,We will start enjoying the work.

A painting is created out of someones interest and feelings.Painting is an art.It leaves satisfaction with the person who will do it.That is the reason why an artist is not stressed of his work.This is the not the case just with art but also with any work. A farmer enjoys his work, though he won't have enough return.When you look for satisfaction on what you do, stress won't come to us and we will be happy with our work.

But when we undertake a task and expect some benefits, then we have to satisfy not just us, but also others.That is the main thing which will cause us stress.There is no stressing work in the world, it is just the part of our mind, stress is something that we create out of our demands over what we are doing and sometimes we are not able to keep personal things away from our work. In the end it become horrible to work.

What makes the food of your mother so special?

Believe, it is the feeling, that she put when she cook the food for you....

Think!  are you in the right job? Just money makes you happy?

Reality of the Unreal World

From the time we are born to the time we are now, we had gone through a lot of experiences, we had acquired a lot of knowledge, we had gone through a lot of emotions.

Our sense helped us to experience, acquire and go through our life.Hence we had created a world around us, out of this senses. It is this senses, which create the REAL world around us. We are very much into this world.

But we ever thought about the limitation of our senses?

Sense of Vision       : We can only see objects which will reflects light and which has got a shape.

Sense of Hearing   : We can only hear the sound frequencies which will come between 20-200 decibels.

Sense of Smelling: Our sense of smelling is very poor compared to other animals.

Sense of Taste       : Our taste buds can recognise just 4 tastes.

Sense of Touch     : Sensibility is limited.

See, our experiences were not complete.So is it wise to believe there is nothing exists beyond our sensibility?

When you gift something...

Did you ever felt that the gift that you gave to someone was not kept or respected the way it deserved?

If you felt it, then it is better you don't gift. Gifting is an act where you express your feelings like appreciation, affection admiration and so or even in an open sense to convince somebody. In any reasons we shouldn't get attached with the gift we present. It not a clean act.

Gifting should be done with all your heart.

Once a trader offered some expensive clothes to Buddha as gift when he was visiting his village and addressing the people. After the preach Buddha gave all the gifts he received to the people around. The trader was not happy with what his master was done. He went to Buddha and asked "why you didn't care the gift that I gave you?"

Buddha smiled and asked " why you gave me those clothes to me if you had that much feelings over them?, You gift me the clothes but not your heart, so it wasn't a gift. It is this attachment that makes us unhappy in our lives."

When we gift something to someone, its not the gift, but it is the heart which is valued. There the gift is not appreciated but the heart. Regard the heart, not the thing. Care the heart not the gift.

Live free.... give up the attachments.

World, lacks Respect?

Do think you are respected by your fellow beings?

If you are not happy then;
1. We must be either demanding,
2.We are expecting the things to be happen the way we wanted

Unfortunately its not the way of nature, it has its own way.
I think we can overcome this sadness by becoming aware of the real situations. These situations in your life is either created by your actions or due to misconceptions or even your perceptions.

When you sleep,how you got disturbed by the music played in the next room by your neighbor.It will be the same music you play when you are in good mood. Here in that moment you want everyone to respect your sleep. See even when you sleep you are demanding, actually its your subconscious is something which wake you up because of your own created perception. In this way we disturb ourselves. We need to be more open. If we would had a kind of attitude that I will sleep even my neighbor would play music, then sure you would never got disturbed by his music. Change is possible if we are ready to change........

Respect cannot be demanded......

NEW WORLD OF FRIENDS

Meant to bring the world together, beyond all boundaries, cultures,religions and racial discrimination. In this momentous life we can share all the joys the worries of our life make our life a celebration.No and violence....be the world remain in peace.............Lokha Samastha Sukino Bhavanthu: